Help! I am lesbian and my gf wants to have sex and I dont know what to do?

Like I said I am a lesbian and my gf wants to have sex and I don't know how to with a girl or what to use in that matter please help!Help! I am lesbian and my gf wants to have sex and I dont know what to do?
invite me over an ill sho u wat 2 do. first with her an then with u!!!Help! I am lesbian and my gf wants to have sex and I dont know what to do?
Relax! Okay, it's your first time with a girl - any reason that should be more difficult than the first time with a boy?





Most important: do you actually want to have sex with her? If you don't, or not yet, then say so. Nobody should be pushed into sex, ever.





If you do, then be honest with her. Does she know it's your first time with a girl? Is it her first time, for that matter? If it isn't, she'll know something of what to do. Main thing is to be open and not set up false expectations.





As to what to use - yourself. My own suggestion is to leave sex toys until later, if that's what you want to use. Just gentle exploration and pleasuring each other should be enough, shouldn't it, at least to start with? Think of things you like, ways and places you like to be touched. She might like the same things. Anyway talk to each other, be gentle with each other, and remember it's not a contest or an exam - there's no need for pressure.





Blessings! :)
In my opinion, you should deal with this the same way you would in any other situation - sit down and talk to her about it. Let her know your concerns and maybe even do a little research? That always helps me, even after being in a relationship now for over a year. Maybe she'd even do some of that research with you? All in all, take your time, voice your concerns and don't rush yourself or your experiences. Just like anything else, it's mostly trial and error to see what you both like/dislike. Hope that helps =)
Make it fun.


Be honest and tell her how you feel...


If she's experienced, ask her what she'd like from you, if maybe she could show you ';hands on'; what to do...


If she's not experienced, no sweat! Laugh about it, have fun with it, it's only the two of you, and if you love each other you'll forgive each other for not being perfect. No need to be embarrassed.





Even if she is experienced, if you're in a committed relationship, and you love each other to take that step to sex, she'll understand, and she'll help you. It's the best way to learn, and she can teach you exactly what she likes and what she doesn't.
just watch a few episodes of The L Word - you will get the basics, or watch an entire season- you'll be a pro =]





or you can just relax, and let your natural human instinct guide you - i still recommend you watch an episode or two of The L Word though, just to be safe haha. seriously though, no worries, everyone has had their first time, so everyone gets it; no need to stress about it, just tell her.
first make sure you really want to have sex and arent being pressured. start by kissing. then making out. maybe kissing on the neck and just rubbing her back and sides as youre doing this. see how that goes and if she is liking it then you should be able to do the rest on your own. just think-she has the same body parts as you, so you obviously have an idea of what feels good for girls. also-not everyone likes the same things so ask her i she likes what you are doing or if there is anyting else she wants you to try. just be relaxed and comfortable and you will be just fine. Good luck!
if she's got some experience let her do all the driving then mimick whatever she did to you just put your own spin and find out what she likes it's your first time she's probably not expecting you to be a pro if she's never done it before either play aaround that's how you learn each other
Well you can use sex toys, get a strap on dildo or even use your hands. If you have no sex toys at the moment you can always use like a carrot but make sure its washed well.
Just tell her that you aren't experienced so she shouldn't expect too much from you.





Try to just relax in bed or outside of it when u are with her..You will see everything going smoothly.
Just be honest to her and tell her you have never done it before but are willing to do it. im sure she will help you along :) have fun
Communicate with her. God knows I've been there before, be honest and she'll tell you what she likes.





PM me if you want more info.
Watch porn.


That is honestly the best way to prepare for sex.


JUST SAYING
do the scissors, lick her pussy and call it good!!!
ok first of all i will take about -20 votes,being lesbian,gay,bi sexual is a (sin),you people cant understand this and u will never understand,you will burn in hell if u did that thats the truth!!!! god bless you all