please helpOk i want to dump my boy friend but dont know how to with out hurtting him how should i do it.?
When I was in high school, I was dating this guy that was completely head over heels in love with me. I started getting bored of him and tried breaking up with him several times, but every time, he threatened to kill himself. I knew that if he did, it wouldn't really be my fault, but I felt guilty. I cheated on him to piss him off... that way, he'd break up with me and I wouldn't feel so bad. It worked!
I'm not suggesting you do that... but it worked for me.Ok i want to dump my boy friend but dont know how to with out hurtting him how should i do it.?
well.. he'l only get hurt if he truly thot u 2 had sumthn goin.. if u think hez nt botherd then tell him.. if he liked u alot o loved u then mayb u shud make it work.. dont break his heart!!
Send him an email. Say things aren't working out and you don't want to see him anymore.
U SHOULD JUST BE REAL WIT HIM AND TELL HIM THA TRUTH IM SURE U WONT HURT HIS FEELINGS BUT IF U DO HURT HIS FEELINGS DEN JUST TELL HIM YALL CAN BE FRIENDZ
no way of not hurting ...even u will feel hurt ...coz i broke up with my bf today ..thou im the one dumping ... i feel like crying ...
if he really likes you then there is no way to do it without hurting him. Just be honest. If your not it will only hurt him more when he finds out.
Boy, you're in a real predicament. We're talking about dumping, not some mere excuse for why you couldn't turn up last weekend ect. Get it over and done with. If you can justify it with reasons, it would probably intensify/reduce the hurt. I don't know, varies from guy to guy. Good luck.
send him a pack of tic tacs...tell him since he's hung like one, you just can't move the relationship along...
there is NO WAY you can break up with him and not hurt him! just do it and get it overwith
Breaking up with someone without hurting them is near impossible. Tell him how you feel. Most likely he'll be hurt- but just give it time and things should work themselves out.
i wanted to dump him too. since last yr. after several tries, now i noe its impossible. *sigh*
If i was you i would just be completely honest .Tell him the real reason you wanna end it, at the end of the day you shouldnt be with somebody you dont want to be with, its your life live it how you want !!!just be honest and do it in a civilised way.I strongly advise against text dumping , very messy!!
Friday, August 20, 2010
Hair how to (with pictures)?
i have naturally curly/wavy hair.
i blew it dry (to avoid it from
becoming too curly.) and this
is how it came out:
http://i42.tinypic.com/28wkxt5.jpg
how would i go about getting
this style?
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/鈥?/a>
http://www.celebrityhairstylesnews.com/c鈥?/a>
any other quick wavy styles and/or
pictures would be greatly appreciated!Hair how to (with pictures)?
You have really nice hair....side ponies like http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/images/鈥?/a>Hair how to (with pictures)?
your hair looks fine there,
but try this:
-wash your hair at night
-dry it with a cotton t-shirt instead of a towel
or a blow-dryer to avoid frizz
-use a good leave in conditioner, like fekkai
glossing cream, kimble hair butter, or sebastian whipped creme
-part your hair in 4 sections (sounds weird, i know)
-put one braid in each section
-sleep like that
-in the morning, take out the braids and mist with
a sea salt spray like sunsilk waves of envy mist
-comb through a little
wow your hair is really pretty!
i blew it dry (to avoid it from
becoming too curly.) and this
is how it came out:
http://i42.tinypic.com/28wkxt5.jpg
how would i go about getting
this style?
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/鈥?/a>
http://www.celebrityhairstylesnews.com/c鈥?/a>
any other quick wavy styles and/or
pictures would be greatly appreciated!Hair how to (with pictures)?
You have really nice hair....side ponies like http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/images/鈥?/a>Hair how to (with pictures)?
your hair looks fine there,
but try this:
-wash your hair at night
-dry it with a cotton t-shirt instead of a towel
or a blow-dryer to avoid frizz
-use a good leave in conditioner, like fekkai
glossing cream, kimble hair butter, or sebastian whipped creme
-part your hair in 4 sections (sounds weird, i know)
-put one braid in each section
-sleep like that
-in the morning, take out the braids and mist with
a sea salt spray like sunsilk waves of envy mist
-comb through a little
wow your hair is really pretty!
Ferberizing , how to with 10 month old ?
ok im reading up on this and to start with 5 mins then increase the time. we have not gone more then two days of him sleeping thru the night since birth. and we have to wait until he is sleeping before putting him in his crib.
i would like to start this method today , but need your help on how you did it with your babies.
how long did he/she cry before falling asleep?
how many days did it take to do this before they fell asleep and stayed asleep?
and anything eles you found usefull while doing it.Ferberizing , how to with 10 month old ?
10 minutes. Let him cry. If he's crying for more than 10 minutes, go in a 'tuck him in' again. Repeat, repeat.
It's hard the first few nights, but it's worth it!!!Ferberizing , how to with 10 month old ?
I found not letting babies cry it out to be a better method. Do what you want though, I have no advice for you.
thumbs down all you want, I prefer to co-sleep.
just to let you know- ferber has changed his views on those things a bit(go aheadd an give me thumbs down)
What I've been doing ever since she started sleeping in her own room is giving her a bottle and letting her fall asleep and then lying her down (I know you're not supposed to do it that way) and she would wake several times a night for her pacifier. At our 6 month appt. the Dr. said to lay down the law, he said we didn't have to do a cry it out method, althought that's what he did with his kids, but to try something.
I couldn't let her cry it out so my husband slept out in the living room and let her cry. The next night she cried for just a few minutes then slept through the night for two weeks straight.
Then she got sick and would only co-sleep and then after that her habits were worse than before.
So I decided to try Ferber. So I put her down after her night time bottle whether she was already asleep or not and if she was awake and started to cry I shushed her and patted her (things she likes) and then left the room. Let her cry for 3 mintues, then went back shushed and patted (did not pick her up) then left the room even if she was still crying. Then repeated after 5 minutes, and then I would have repeated after 10 but she fell asleep in about two minutes. Also 10 min would have been the maxium time, you chose the time you feel most comfortable with.
So for the rest of the night when she woke up, I'd go shush and pat and then leave and she'd cry for less than a minute and then go back to sleep.
After 2-3 nights, she now is back to just waking up for her pacifier, and then goes right back to sleep when I get it for her, and she wakes less for it each night, last night she only woke up once. So I'm thinking about taking the pacifier away, we may have a couple more crying nights.
Originally I was against cry it out, but at 8 months old I think it's ok now because it's the only thing that has worked. It's not like you're just letting them cry by themself, you keep going back in there to let them know you're there, but they start to realize it's bedtime, as long as they're fed, warm, not too warm, and don't need a diaper change, I think they are ok.
You don't think there's actually some sort of science behind this lazy-parenting nonsense, do you? There's no research showing that X minutes for X nights actually does anything good. If you are going to jam your child in a crib and wander off, ignoring sobbing pleas for comfort, just do it and don't kid yourself that you're doing it according to some sort of 'proper' method.
However, there is some research out there. An excellent starting point:
http://www.talaris.org/pdf/research/CIOP…
';we have not gone more then two days of him sleeping thru the night since birth';
That is normal. Your baby is a baby, and one who is developmentally normal.
I just started this with my 13 month old. I spend a few minutes with him. Usually while he drinks his last bottle. Then I put him in bed and stroke his back. The first few nights he didn't want to lie down. So, I walked out of the room for exactly 5 minutes. It was horrible because he cried the entire time. After the five minutes, I would go back in, give him a hug and kiss and lie him back down again. I would rub his back and usually he would fall asleep within 2-3 minutes. Everyday it is progressively getting easier. It has been about a week and a half and I do not have to leave the room for 5 minutes. I just lay him down and rub his back and he falls asleep. Good luck it is hard but it will get easier.
I would like to add that he still gets up in the middle of the night but I just go in and rub his back again and he is asleep within 30 seconds. Before I would spend 10 minutes rocking him to sleep.
Ferberizing? You mean trying to make your baby fall asleep when you want them to and not when they are ready to do so?
i would like to start this method today , but need your help on how you did it with your babies.
how long did he/she cry before falling asleep?
how many days did it take to do this before they fell asleep and stayed asleep?
and anything eles you found usefull while doing it.Ferberizing , how to with 10 month old ?
10 minutes. Let him cry. If he's crying for more than 10 minutes, go in a 'tuck him in' again. Repeat, repeat.
It's hard the first few nights, but it's worth it!!!Ferberizing , how to with 10 month old ?
I found not letting babies cry it out to be a better method. Do what you want though, I have no advice for you.
thumbs down all you want, I prefer to co-sleep.
just to let you know- ferber has changed his views on those things a bit(go aheadd an give me thumbs down)
What I've been doing ever since she started sleeping in her own room is giving her a bottle and letting her fall asleep and then lying her down (I know you're not supposed to do it that way) and she would wake several times a night for her pacifier. At our 6 month appt. the Dr. said to lay down the law, he said we didn't have to do a cry it out method, althought that's what he did with his kids, but to try something.
I couldn't let her cry it out so my husband slept out in the living room and let her cry. The next night she cried for just a few minutes then slept through the night for two weeks straight.
Then she got sick and would only co-sleep and then after that her habits were worse than before.
So I decided to try Ferber. So I put her down after her night time bottle whether she was already asleep or not and if she was awake and started to cry I shushed her and patted her (things she likes) and then left the room. Let her cry for 3 mintues, then went back shushed and patted (did not pick her up) then left the room even if she was still crying. Then repeated after 5 minutes, and then I would have repeated after 10 but she fell asleep in about two minutes. Also 10 min would have been the maxium time, you chose the time you feel most comfortable with.
So for the rest of the night when she woke up, I'd go shush and pat and then leave and she'd cry for less than a minute and then go back to sleep.
After 2-3 nights, she now is back to just waking up for her pacifier, and then goes right back to sleep when I get it for her, and she wakes less for it each night, last night she only woke up once. So I'm thinking about taking the pacifier away, we may have a couple more crying nights.
Originally I was against cry it out, but at 8 months old I think it's ok now because it's the only thing that has worked. It's not like you're just letting them cry by themself, you keep going back in there to let them know you're there, but they start to realize it's bedtime, as long as they're fed, warm, not too warm, and don't need a diaper change, I think they are ok.
You don't think there's actually some sort of science behind this lazy-parenting nonsense, do you? There's no research showing that X minutes for X nights actually does anything good. If you are going to jam your child in a crib and wander off, ignoring sobbing pleas for comfort, just do it and don't kid yourself that you're doing it according to some sort of 'proper' method.
However, there is some research out there. An excellent starting point:
http://www.talaris.org/pdf/research/CIOP…
';we have not gone more then two days of him sleeping thru the night since birth';
That is normal. Your baby is a baby, and one who is developmentally normal.
I just started this with my 13 month old. I spend a few minutes with him. Usually while he drinks his last bottle. Then I put him in bed and stroke his back. The first few nights he didn't want to lie down. So, I walked out of the room for exactly 5 minutes. It was horrible because he cried the entire time. After the five minutes, I would go back in, give him a hug and kiss and lie him back down again. I would rub his back and usually he would fall asleep within 2-3 minutes. Everyday it is progressively getting easier. It has been about a week and a half and I do not have to leave the room for 5 minutes. I just lay him down and rub his back and he falls asleep. Good luck it is hard but it will get easier.
I would like to add that he still gets up in the middle of the night but I just go in and rub his back again and he is asleep within 30 seconds. Before I would spend 10 minutes rocking him to sleep.
Ferberizing? You mean trying to make your baby fall asleep when you want them to and not when they are ready to do so?
Help how would you want your kids to tell you they might be pregnant and or there not a virgin?
i had sex and might be pregnant i need to tell my dad but i dont know how to with out just coming straight out and telling him how would u want ur kids to tell youHelp how would you want your kids to tell you they might be pregnant and or there not a virgin?
do what i did. Leave a pack of condoms on your shelf in sight so when your mum cleans your room she see them and knows.Help how would you want your kids to tell you they might be pregnant and or there not a virgin?
I would make sure I was pregnant first, because what if your not and you tell your dad, you're just gonna be in trouble.
If you are pregnant,
Dad, we need to talk. I think I might be pregnant.
I don't know any other ways you could just hint the subject to him, without just telling him straight out.
Hope everything goes well,
-Macy(:
Wait until you are positive or else it will be a bid to do over nothing. If you are in fact pregnant, I would just come out and say it. You should probably have the father with you, because it shows he wants to step up. If you are planning on putting your baby up for adoption, throw that out there right away. I don't agree with abortion, so I'm not going to suggest that.
NOTE: Always use a condom or get yourself on some sort of birth control. Good luck!
I would first wait and find out if you're pregnant first. No point in discussing that if you're not. However, you should be asking for birth control so you don't have to worry about becoming pregnant as much. Just tell him. I didn't freak out when my daughter told me she'd had sex for the first time. Then we discussed birth control and we got her on depo.
';Mom i did IT and i think i might be pregnant';
I would be mad especially since when i do have kids i would lecture them about protection.
';Mom i did IT but dont worry i used protection';
I would be happy, they took responsibilty of using protection.
%26lt;333
I'm still young myself but when I have kids I'm going to just come straight out and tell my mother. I want my kids to be the same with me. I'd rather them tell me straight up than keep it hidden til the last possible moment.
';dad, i think i'm pregnant';
just like that
do what i did. Leave a pack of condoms on your shelf in sight so when your mum cleans your room she see them and knows.Help how would you want your kids to tell you they might be pregnant and or there not a virgin?
I would make sure I was pregnant first, because what if your not and you tell your dad, you're just gonna be in trouble.
If you are pregnant,
Dad, we need to talk. I think I might be pregnant.
I don't know any other ways you could just hint the subject to him, without just telling him straight out.
Hope everything goes well,
-Macy(:
Wait until you are positive or else it will be a bid to do over nothing. If you are in fact pregnant, I would just come out and say it. You should probably have the father with you, because it shows he wants to step up. If you are planning on putting your baby up for adoption, throw that out there right away. I don't agree with abortion, so I'm not going to suggest that.
NOTE: Always use a condom or get yourself on some sort of birth control. Good luck!
I would first wait and find out if you're pregnant first. No point in discussing that if you're not. However, you should be asking for birth control so you don't have to worry about becoming pregnant as much. Just tell him. I didn't freak out when my daughter told me she'd had sex for the first time. Then we discussed birth control and we got her on depo.
';Mom i did IT and i think i might be pregnant';
I would be mad especially since when i do have kids i would lecture them about protection.
';Mom i did IT but dont worry i used protection';
I would be happy, they took responsibilty of using protection.
%26lt;333
I'm still young myself but when I have kids I'm going to just come straight out and tell my mother. I want my kids to be the same with me. I'd rather them tell me straight up than keep it hidden til the last possible moment.
';dad, i think i'm pregnant';
just like that
Easy hair styles/dos for thick, curly, short hair...?
I wanted some new ways to style my hair, it is curly and almost shoulder length (a little above)...
I am looking for something besides straightening, ponytail, bun, etc type of styles. several ideas that are pretty and simple and how-to
one example is like putting all of the curls to one side (and how-to)
with pic if possible
Thank you soo much!
God bless!Easy hair styles/dos for thick, curly, short hair...?
- Half up with a clip or hair tie. I also like doing it without a clip. Just twist the upper layer into a bun and pull the end through. That way your hair doesn't get caught on the clip. I also love these:
http://www.flexi8.com/
pics:
http://z.hubpages.com/u/270450_f520.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/womenshair/1/0/B/-/鈥?/a>
- Side parted hair with the front section clipped to the side. I like to use little jaw clips, but bobby pins will work if your hair isn't too thick.
There's also a book out there with curly hair styles called ';Strictly Curls';.
Some cool curly websites:
http://www.wikihow.com/Follow-the-Curly-鈥?/a>
http://www.ylcf.org/gotcurl/
http://www.naturallycurly.com/curltalk/
http://www.youtube.com/user/jessicurl
Hope this helps! :)Easy hair styles/dos for thick, curly, short hair...?
try wearing a french braid it actually looks really cute with curly hair, but remember to use some anti frizz spray or gel after your done braiding otherwise it just turns out a frizzy mess. good luck (:
do a short messy bun with a lot of bobby pins
I am looking for something besides straightening, ponytail, bun, etc type of styles. several ideas that are pretty and simple and how-to
one example is like putting all of the curls to one side (and how-to)
with pic if possible
Thank you soo much!
God bless!Easy hair styles/dos for thick, curly, short hair...?
- Half up with a clip or hair tie. I also like doing it without a clip. Just twist the upper layer into a bun and pull the end through. That way your hair doesn't get caught on the clip. I also love these:
http://www.flexi8.com/
pics:
http://z.hubpages.com/u/270450_f520.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/womenshair/1/0/B/-/鈥?/a>
- Side parted hair with the front section clipped to the side. I like to use little jaw clips, but bobby pins will work if your hair isn't too thick.
There's also a book out there with curly hair styles called ';Strictly Curls';.
Some cool curly websites:
http://www.wikihow.com/Follow-the-Curly-鈥?/a>
http://www.ylcf.org/gotcurl/
http://www.naturallycurly.com/curltalk/
http://www.youtube.com/user/jessicurl
Hope this helps! :)Easy hair styles/dos for thick, curly, short hair...?
try wearing a french braid it actually looks really cute with curly hair, but remember to use some anti frizz spray or gel after your done braiding otherwise it just turns out a frizzy mess. good luck (:
do a short messy bun with a lot of bobby pins
How to...with babies?
ok so me and my fiance have been trying to have a baby.We used to have sex like a million times a day and what not,but every time i had missed a period or was late it would still always come. I just want to know what and how is the easiest way to conceive a child. I have wanted a kid for the past 4 or so years now and i always get excited but my period always comes. I mean at the time right now i have been having abdominal pain,pelvic pain,and chest pain and last month my period was like spotting and this month the same but just a little bit heavier. I haven't had sex for the past 2 going on 3 months and if im not pregnant or don't get pregnant soon i would like to know what the easiest way to conceive is.How to...with babies?
Me and my fiance are in the same boat. we have been trying for 4years now, but ive just come across this ovulation calendar software which is very helpful and you can record your periods and it works everything out for you. its free and you can access it straight from your desktop.
femta.com it takes 2mins to install.
hope this helps you. goodluck!!How to...with babies?
check out fertilityfriend.com
It's the best website I've seen for help understanding your cycle. There is a basic membership for free but you can get a fancy one for cheap too.
You should invest in a good BBT thermometer. If you don't know what that is a pharmacist can help you find one. This site is great because it helps you track your cycles and see if you are ovulating, because if you're not ovulating, obviously you aren't going to get pregnant.
hope this helps.
You need to have sex around your ovulation time which is 14 be for your next period.
People say every other day to have sex and then after just relax and lift your leg up on the wall or something with a pillow under your bum.
Good luck!!computer security big hair
Me and my fiance are in the same boat. we have been trying for 4years now, but ive just come across this ovulation calendar software which is very helpful and you can record your periods and it works everything out for you. its free and you can access it straight from your desktop.
femta.com it takes 2mins to install.
hope this helps you. goodluck!!How to...with babies?
check out fertilityfriend.com
It's the best website I've seen for help understanding your cycle. There is a basic membership for free but you can get a fancy one for cheap too.
You should invest in a good BBT thermometer. If you don't know what that is a pharmacist can help you find one. This site is great because it helps you track your cycles and see if you are ovulating, because if you're not ovulating, obviously you aren't going to get pregnant.
hope this helps.
You need to have sex around your ovulation time which is 14 be for your next period.
People say every other day to have sex and then after just relax and lift your leg up on the wall or something with a pillow under your bum.
Good luck!!
How to with an attention seeker in class?
their is this girl in class that sexual harasses me at one point. she would kick my feet and play footsie. I didn't mind because I liked her at one point, but she plays a lot of games and certain things we do she would tell everyone and likes to gossip. I be like WTF!! and embarrassed, I asked her out once and she said yea, the next day i called her she act lost and confused. later on starts c0ck blocking when ever other girls laugh with me on my conversations. I dont understand this girl, she complains that she don't have a boyfriend and it annoys me. I don't wanna go to school with a negative atmosphere, considering this attention seeker knows half the class and will gossip about me. how can i keep things positive when i go to my college class? with out bitching at her to stop, which i haven't did yet.How to with an attention seeker in class?
tell her you ll report her for harassment and she will go to juvi
tell her you ll report her for harassment and she will go to juvi
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